Why Church is Like a Box of Crayons
After 35 years of pastoring the same church, I am still surprised when folks leave because they can’t get along with others in the fellowship. Here’s why:
Category: Relationships
How to Silence a Church Gossip
Recently I rediscovered a story in my illustration file, and I just had to share it with you. I think it is the perfect answer for how to silence a church gossip.
A Simple Celtic Prayer for Reconciliation
Celtic Christians were known for their simple, yet profound, prayers. This Celtic prayer for reconciliation captures the strength found in such praying.
How to Quiet Your Inner Assumption Lawyer
Do you have an inner lawyer struggling to win every case presented by a negative assumption? I’ll bet that affects your time, energy, and relationships!
Aspects of Criticism That Limit Your Relationships
Do you ever find yourself thinking and speaking critically of another? Yep, me too—especially at times when I feel slighted or misunderstood.
How to Respond to a Drama Queen
Being in ministry for over 35 years has provided a theater in which to view people’s lives in crisis. Here are 7 tips to help you survive a Drama Queen.
The 10 Most Popular Posts of 2010
Time for our 10 most popular posts of 2010! But first, thanks for stopping by my place this last year, walking with me on my journey, and sharing my blisters.
How to Recover the Lost Art of Reverencing Others
I don’t know about you, but I’ve found myself losing the capacity for reverence in little ways—and it scares me. Here are some tips on how to recover the lost art of reverencing others.
Ouch, That Hurt!–Understanding and Dealing With Offense
Tom and I had been involved in ministry only a few years when I experienced the betrayal of a friend from church. “You know I wouldn’t say this if I didn’t love you,” . . . .
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Help, I’m Stuck With These People, Book Giveaway!
A pastor once said that ministry and church life would be great if it wasn’t for the people. Others have said the same thing about church leaders. — Book Giveaway!