For most of my life, I’ve felt obligated to keep close friendships. With a few of my friends, this has been easy, even if we live far apart. The love between us is tight, and distance and the passing of time only give us more to talk and laugh about.
But with some women, the friendship sours over time. I’ll stick it out for as long as I can because once I invest myself I tend to be loyal.
But staying in a friendship that isn’t healthy, for whatever reason, isn’t good for my soul or my friend’s.
And honestly, the older I get, the less time I want to spend on friends who aren’t interested in healthy relationships.… Read the rest